Most people think that failure is something really serious, and this leads to the fear of failure, but what we do not realize is that that fear of failure can even be more limiting than failure itself. Because if we think only that we are going to have negative results or simply don’t do anything just for fear of thinking that we won’t do it well it’s a way of truncating our own path to success, below, we will know four thoughts that will take us away from success and will contribute to our failure.
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Conformism: This is what there is
Having this kind of conformist thought of declaring “this is what there is” is a thought that we unconsciously carry with us; we are practically eliminating all kinds of power within us to achieve what we set out to do. When faced with any obstacle that is presented to us, we think that we cannot find a solution, or simply the result is not the expected, many times we are content to say “this is what there is”, we tell ourselves that we cannot do more. For this reason, we must change that thought, and eliminate it from us, changing it always for powerful questions that will manage to empower us before any situation, and what better way than to first look inside ourselves for the solution by saying “within my possibilities, there is something I can do to change this result little by little for a better one.”
It’s the fault of the current situation
This second thought is much related to the first, and it is a thought that every time we repeat it because we do not have a favorable result the only thing we are attracting is everything bad and negative, since we only repeat ourselves and tell everyone “it is that the situation is bad and everything goes wrong”. Instead, by realizing this type of thinking can be changed to another more positive, just by adding at the end of our negative thought or the sentence “… but, in my case, fortunately, everything is going well or in my case, this will make the situation much better.”
I’m not good at…
When we constantly think “I don’t think I’m good at this”, without realizing it, we do it because at some point in our lives, we weren’t prepared for something specific, therefore we were not good at that something, but throughout our lives, we have been preparing, studying, practicing to better ourselves and be good at what we want to do. But without realizing it for some reason we still think that we are not good enough for “that”. Therefore, we must do something about it, we cannot stay at this point and continue thinking that “I’m not good for this” if we believe that we are not good at something or for something then let’s look for changing that thought and let’s find the right answer that we need to know that we must change in us and thus be able to prepare ourselves to start being good at what we want, that way we will enhance that which is inside us to be good at something and why not specialize in that, let’s think about “I’ll be very good at…”
That’s not as easy as it looks
This last thought stands out more than anything else in those people who simply do not want to leave that place where they are stuck, we are not talking only about a person who is afraid to fail, but also about the fact that when this thought invades us we are giving power to that inner self that is vague, that inner self that coexists with laziness and prefers to do nothing, which will lead us to continue living the same way we have been doing without risks and therefore without success, since by thinking this way we are willing to not move a finger to fight for that goal we have set for ourselves. And we must know that throughout our lives there are many times in which that thought invades us, and we limit ourselves just thinking “well, that is not as easy as it looks”. We must be willing to make changes in our way of thinking and reprogram ourselves to be successful people, for this, we can also rely on the 5 tips to have an abundant mind.
Finally, we would like to share a phrase from Robert Kiyosaki about failure that will help us to get closer to our success.
“Winners are not afraid to lose. Losers are. Failure is part of the process of success. People who avoid failure avoid success”
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